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Referendum 71 — Get past hatred and support families
BY THE REV. JANE NEWALL
FOR THE YAKIMA HERALD-REPUBLIC
A vote to approve Referendum 71 is a vote to keep the domestic partnership law in place. This law provides legal protections for lesbian and gay couples and for heterosexual couples where one partner is age 62 or older. This law allows for older people to gain legal benefits without jeopardizing Social Security or other economic benefits that would be adversely affected by marriage.
Under the domestic partnership bill passed by the Legislature and signed by the governor, registered couples are able to take unpaid leave to care for a critically ill loved one without being fired. Couples are able to cover a partner in family health insurance. It assures that pension and death benefits protect children if one parent dies. It allows for death benefits for the partners of gay and lesbian firefighters and police officers killed in the line of duty.
Approving Referendum 71 ensures that important protections are not taken away from committed couples so that they are able to take care of each other, especially in times of crisis.
What truly confounds me is the hatred in the hearts of people who would gather signatures to overturn other people’s long-sought-after civil rights. Many gay and lesbian people feel we are treated like objects, an issue, an agenda, something to galvanize the far right, the scapegoats of the last decade. We are not an issue. We are people and we take this level of attack personally.
As a minister, I find it very troubling that the anti-gay movement uses religion to support discrimination. Some churches have been leading the hatred. Did these churches forget that Jesus came for all people? Did these churches forget that there are over 39 different types of families and living situations in the Bible, of which heterosexual marriage is just one? Perhaps they forgot that many of Jesus’ ancestors were in same-sex relationships? Do not use religion to justify your hatred. How can you love a God whom you have not seen when you hate your brothers and sisters whom you have seen?
I am thankful that the Washington Association of Churches approves of Referendum 71, as do a number of denominations.
Gay and lesbian people pay the same taxes; their families should be entitled to the same legal and financial protections, rights and responsibilities as any other family. Gay and lesbian couples have children. In Washington state, domestic partnerships are an important way for children of gay and lesbian couples to have the legal rights that children of married couples take for granted.
My partner, Debbie, and I have four children. We want to provide for and protect them, just like all parents do. We have had to spend a lot of money hiring attorneys to give our family the same legal protections that married couples have. With a domestic partnership, the expense of legal protection drops dramatically.
The far right seems to think that by not legally recognizing same-sex relationships, they do not exist. The truth is, legally recognized or not, love between two people is always a radical act. Love is always a blessing. Our relationships survive and it is our love for one another and our families that are our true strength.
When you vote to approve Referendum 71, you are supporting your neighbors, co-workers and vital members of your community.
Approving Referendum 71 will greatly benefit many families, both straight and gay, in Washington state, including mine. We must approve Referendum 71 to secure protections for all Washington families.
* The Rev. Jane Newall is founder of Yakima’s Rainbow Cathedral Metropolitan Community Church.
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